The gender bender is the sender not the lender.

My dad (who is not biological...my birth conditions were...complicated, but I consider this guy to be my father in every way possible) loves football.  Most dads do.  He loves sports and fitness but especially football.  He always stressed importance in fitness and keeping the body healthy.  As a child I did not heed his words as most children are quite incapable of doing so.  However, I am a somewhat special case.  I remember the past and how important it really was!!  Still, I can not explain what it is that stifles the transmission of good sense when one is under age..  It's definitely something I have been unable to master and believe me when I say, it's not due to a lack of practice I assure you.  The only theory I have is that there are so few akin to me, that I simply lack guidance, and such matters are just as trivial as other "adult" matters are when you are a child. So one thing I noticed about my dad is that he is an "Alpha Male" type.  A "throwback" to mans simpler times..  A barbaric and archaic concept, which is far outdated within a society of equality.  I apologize to any self admitted alpha males that may be reading, however I suspect there aren't any because of the subject matter in which I commonly author.  As it seems to me, males have truly retarded the progress the human race had made.  I shall do my best to explain, however I would go as far to predict that many wise females who read my words shall most definitely agree with that diagnosis without much objection.  I have said many times that the "superior man" is a human with an equal share of male and female within them.  I want to be clear, because apparently in this day and age you have to make this distinction.  I do not mean Sexually male and female..  Like a person is half male and half female.  With genetalia of both or most of one and some of the other.  This is ridiculous.  You must understand that "Gender" is manifested in everything you see.  Sex is simply the way a physical body manifest a part of its Gender.  In other words, whatever sex you are...you are the other as well in some other way.  Every Male thing is female in certain aspects and every female thing has the male thing within it. That's just the way of things.  If a man is the classic "Alpha Male", it means that he is suppressing that which is female and therefor he is losing a part of himself.  Making himself less than instead of greater than the sum of all his parts.  I happen to understand what it is like to be a man and woman in this world.  I say to you right now, being a woman is a thousand times more difficult in this society.  Today I completely accept and even encourage the woman inside me...  I often wear lots of jewelry and accessories that lack all practicality because they look pretty.  I wear nail polish (usually black or white), and probably the biggest way I am female is my sexuality.  I am a bisexual male, and have an attraction to men. My girlfriend is sort of my opposite, as she tends to be much more male than female.  I am pleased with that though.  People who are unwilling to accept the homosexual community must realize the opposite sexy within themselves.  If they did they would understand that men with lots of female energy sometimes need a balance and will be attracted to men for just that reason.  Same thing with women but reverse sexes.  It's quite natural.  I am androgynous naturally..  Male and female is quite the same for me.  I happen to be ambidextrous too.  It would seem I was balanced somewhere along the line.  My point is that if you feel different...  You probably are..  And I want you to know that I think you are absolutely wonderful for that.  How we need you in this world so badly that I don't even have the words.  Embrace your difference and be more than everyone!

Thank you friends and remember to share!!